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Monday, August 24, 2009/ 2:49 PM Anger Management in Islam. There once was a little boy who had a bad temper (anger). His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper and get angry, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.The first day the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. Little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper (anger) than to drive those nails into the fence...Finally the day came when the little boy did not lose his temper (anger) at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the little boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper (anger). The day passed and the little boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his little boy by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there." Our Holy Prophet Muhammad (saw) mentions the tongue before the hand. As everybody knows, the 'wounds' caused by the tongue are deeper and more hurtful than those caused by the hand. Besides, one is often prepared to strike more readily, easily and more frequently with one's tongue than with the hand. Slandering, backbiting, reproaching and other similar ways of hurting people are commoner and more difficult to avoid than hurt done by the hand. Further, if a person can refrain from hurting with the tongue, he can more easily refrain from the assaults by the hand. Again, defending oneself against physical assaults is, in most cases, easier than against verbal assaults of, in particular, backbiting and slandering. So, a true Muslim always restrains his tongue as well as his hand from hurting others. i am truly blessed to have a super supportive bf, and along with that comes another extended family. alhamdullilah. ~it's up to me to stay or go.~ ;) |
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Saturday, August 22, 2009/ 2:57 PM i hate it when technology fails on me. pretty bummed cos i cannot access my own fb. can only access it thru my phone, and somehow some of my friend's profile i cannot gain access too. i hate it when things like that happen. maybe tmr, it'll be okaay. pfft. anws, i'm super excited cos i'm gonna fly off in approximately three months time. woohoo! currently deciding between LA or LV stopover during my return leg of the trip. i want Hollywood, but i want affordable hotels. maybe i'll do both. =)) and nadifa will be flying off to canada on the 24th! two more days babe! take care and have lotsa fun. this is super random, but im watching history channel. i wanna be an astronaut. i think its so cool. cos i can look down and say HELLO EARTH! haha. 1 ramadhan. 29 days to go. ~once a lone star, now experienced supernova.~ |
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Friday, August 21, 2009/ 10:33 PM not down. not exactly up either. disappointed. it's one thing when a person decides to be sinister and sarcastic while blogging. but its another thing when that person that you consider as a friend decides to be sinister and sarcastic. i, personally do not have any objections towards that person's declaration of achievement of happy feeling cos everyone has their right to be happy. i have mine too. and i ain't crumbling. never. it's not like i asked for the extravagant gifts or whined to get them. they were gifts. oh wells, i shall let the matter rest. life, as they say, is a box of chocolate. i have just taken a bite at the most bitter chocolate in the box. so, spit it out and bite into another chocolate then. it'll be sweeter. =)) anyhoos, its the fasting month. and im so looking forward to it. alhamdullilah. =))) happy fasting everyone. =)))) ~apa khabarnya pujaan hatiku....~ |
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Tuesday, August 18, 2009/ 1:19 AM love affair.  man's 25th birthday celebration.venue: sakura international buffet @ admiralty, the stomach, the heart. it was an advanced 25th for man. and it was hilarious. had so much fun eating, watching the guys eat (esp man and boyfie). cam whored. laughed. stole some food out. and crapped the whole time we were there. the birthday song was super loud, it shocked everyone including us, the organisers. hahahaha. now the whole world knows its his birthday. hehe. anyways, it was fun! haha. next up. boyfie's birthday. hehe. im so gonna love it. wheee!  boyfie's reason for taking two shots of this. left side, he said was how far we stood when we first met. and the right side, is us, a year later. hahahaha. funny ah u.. hahaha. that was the only time that we sat opposite each other. normally we would sit beside each other and annoy each other. sitting opposite him, it felt like he's so near yet so far. and i hate that feeling. hahahah. and please ignore my chubby cheeks. hahah. nehmind, fasting month coming. hehe. :P
~more hugs and kisses to a boy fidah loves.~ |
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Wednesday, August 12, 2009/ 11:30 PM never better. it's been a long weekend for both me and boyfie. (like real ah fidah. haha.) so we took time off our duties and we went SHOPPING. yaay!
 rosti has fully transformed into a romeo from a rocker. and im diggin the new look. if only there was a hari raya outfit. it would be purr-fect. but for now, this look is A-W-E-S-O-M-E. im lovin it!boyfie bought himself a laptop. with a camera! and we webcammed side by side. we msn-ed side by side. hilarious. funn! my boyfie is a MARKSMAN dok! HAHAHA. his exact words. marksman dok! haha. im proud of you dear. ~hugs and kisses to a boy fidah loves.~ |
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Sunday, August 9, 2009/ 2:00 AM just because. it's 2am and im still wide awake. cos i miss my dearie. bid goodbye and goodnight to him 2hrs ago, but i still miss dearie. i'm at a lost for words cos i miss dearie. gonna hear his voice later at 430am, wake him up for work, and i know i'll miss him even more cos he's gonna have a super long day at work. don't know what time he'll reach home, and i will look forward to his 'sahur' phonecall. oh yess.. HAPPY 44TH B'DAY SINGAPORE and HAPPY 27TH ANNIVERSARY MUM AND DAD!! =) p/s: got a new bolster as my belated bday pressie, am very excited to sleep. HAHA. ~i wish that bolster is dearie. BOOO! =P.~ |
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Sunday, August 2, 2009/ 12:15 AM we are ONE.  its amazing how time flies. when you're having fun. when you're having fun with the person you love. it feels like we barely know each other, yet at the same time it feels like we've been together for years. we've been together for 365 days. perhaps more. HAHA. it feels so surreal yet AWESOME. we've had our ups and downs. our egoistical moments. our bimbotic moments. and our super happy on cloud 9834472892928737647 moments. every moment with him is always something that i look forward to.and we could never made it this far if his buddies weren't there for us. helping us to smack us on the back of the head when we decide to give up on love. HAHA. thanks guys! and to the loveliest creature on Earth, thanks for all your patience and love these 12 months. thank you for loving me. thank you for everything that you've done for me. from the bottom of my small brittle heart, I LOVE YOU. *bliss* =)) ~happy 1st anniversary sweetheart. Muacks!~ |
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